Silver duvet jacket

Hurrah for a duvet coat that doesn't make me look like The Michelin Man!









Here on the islands we've been plunged into winter so it's time to bring out my arsenal of duvet coats (this being the first of three, although the second is a gunmetal grey and not so terribly different). I cycle or walk everywhere so a warm coat is vital at this time of year. I was really pleased to come across this one in TK Maxx a couple of years ago as I wanted something practical, but still a bit glamorous too. I think the slim cut with belted waist seals the deal there. It also means that I can wear a skirt with it as there's enough definition to carry that off too. Some duvet coats are just square and chunky and really only look good with skinny jeans.

My latest favourite pairing is tartan and leopard print. I came across this combo quite by chance when I was lining up shoe options and these just popped up begging to be matched up with some tartan trousers. The connection for that look was black and the theme has just expanded from there. Today's double dose of tartan and leopard print really pulls the look together. The fluffy sweater adds the necessary cosy element as well as giving a bit of interest - just in case it wasn't making the grade. It's great to have the chance to bring out my lovely vintage handbag again and leads me slickly in to the introduction of my beautiful sparkly Vivienne Westwood pendant.

At this time of year I work completely on my own as the gallery is closed and I'm based upstairs in my office all day. No visitors could mean I drift into a jeans and jumper mentality as I know no-one will see me, but I think that would bring me down quite quickly. All year round I honestly dress for myself, and now the bonus is that I can share the outfit of the day with my fellow bloggers and audience. I love getting your feedback so please do take a moment to send me a comment with your thoughts. And if you haven't done it before then do get in touch by email if you're confused by the comments options - it's easier than you think. (Isn't it Maggs?)

Coat: TK Maxx. Scarf: 49 Degrees. Skirt: TK Maxx. Blouse: H&M (charity shop). Sweater: TK Maxx. Shoes: eBay. Belt: Zara. Tights: Wolford. Pendant: Vivienne Westwood. Handbag: Vintage. Rings: charity shop. 

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And just a little something extra this weekend...



I surprise myself at today's extra blog post, as I never thought I'd be one to write about food on my blog. You see, I eat very simply and am not a big foodie as such, but I've had such an exciting food discovery that I really want to share it. But wait, before I reveal the details of this scrumptious morsel, I just want to enlighten you as to the confines of my diet (or re-cap for those of you in the know), then at least you'll understand why this is such a big deal for me. For nearly 40 years now I've lived with bowel disease; Ulcerative Colitis, to be precise. My full story can be read here. Anyway, the deal is this - providing I adhere to a very strict diet I can not only control the symptoms, but I can avoid taking the standard medications (with their ensuing side effects). When I say strict diet, you may imagine all sorts of dull and dreadful things, but really it's not. It's a very healthy and nutritious array of foods which to me are delicious and satisfying. I eat no additives, or preservatives and therefore my palate is very clean and crisp; I have a great sense of taste and smell and thoroughly enjoy everything I eat, yes truly, everything. Sorry if I sound very goody-two-shoes, but for me it's simply a matter of eating well to stay well.

I was recently asked what can't I eat. Well, it's easier to tell you what I can. Hold up the fingers of one hand - that covers my food groups - eggs, chicken, fish, fruit, vegetables. That's it. Within the fruit and veg I do have restrictions and dislikes, such as oranges aren't good for me, but I can eat grapefruit; mushrooms make me very ill, as does sweetcorn and bean sprouts amongst other things. Anyway, since changing my eating habits to the SCD I have become 100% well. That's quite a statement when you consider that in my 20's I had a gastroenterologist predict I would need to have some of my bowel removed if my flare-ups continued; in fact it was pretty much inevitable he said. The flare-ups continued, but I still haven't had surgery.

Just two and a half years ago I discovered the SCD as a result of research on the Internet when I was very poorly indeed. At the time I was attending a week long yoga course and was struggling with severe abdominal pain for much of the time. I couldn't be more than a few hundred yards from a toilet and my day to day life was severely compromised. All in all, I felt pretty sorry for myself. Lucy, my yoga teacher encouraged me greatly when I told her I'd come across this radical diet. We both agreed with the theory of a strict elimination diet to remove all irritants from the system giving the body the best opportunity to rebalance and repair. The improvement was almost immediate.

As soon as I was able to leave the house again I started sea swimming. My research had uncovered a train of thought about cold water and the immune response which I was keen to try out. The stimulus of the immune system from the shock of the cold water acts like rebooting the central nervous system; the body's fight or flight mechanism is able to work in the appropriate manner again. Instead of the body being flooded with stress hormones at all the wrong times, the cold water hit induces an adrenalin rush which is immediately utilised by the body and burnt up doing what it's meant to. Not many of us would choose to sea swim anywhere in the UK all year round, but as they say, desperate times call for desperate measures! ( I must add that cold water showers/baths are noted to have a similarly beneficial effect, but swimming seemed like a more energising option.) My swimming took on a life of its own culminating in a challenge over the course of an entire day on the 5th September
 this year (read the account here). My yoga teacher was astounded and still likes to remind me of the time when I was too ill to leave the house, never mind spend a whole day swimming from island to island.

But, I have digressed for long enough. Back to my joyful food discovery. There are no treats within my diet; no chocolate praline balls of scrumptiousness, or finger-staining flavoured savoury snacks; no G&T's at the end of the day; no secret indulgences to be had as a reward for a particularly bad day. Not even a cup of tea, that ever so British cure-all for when life deals you a heavy blow. Good, clean eating is the price I have to pay for a healthy gut. Well, can you imagine my delight to come across a simple recipe needing only two ingredients that tastes like ambrosia? Take one very ripe banana (brown skin rather than yellow) and mash into a bowl. Add two raw eggs and beat together. Heat a teaspoon of olive oil in a small frying pan or better still a griddle, and drop in large spoonfuls of the mix. Cook until golden brown and flip over, cook on second side. The pancake with have a soft, custardy centre. Tip onto a plate and devour - no sugar, cream or icecream required. I found this recipe in a newspaper recently and have to add that the pancakes don't quite hold their shape for me which could be down to the fact that my pancake pan is a bit ancient and does stick. However, even though the pancakes were a bit of a cross between a sweet omlette and a soggy pancake, the taste was far more important than the final look of the dish. The first mouthful tasted sweet, syrupy and just like a banana fitter, the deep fried treat from my youth. And now I've discovered this version of the banana fritter, I just wanted to share the healthiest of puddings which tastes like the most sinful delight - enjoy!





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A nip in the air (September flashback)

This is the end of my daily commute to work (only 200m from home) and upstairs from here is the view from my office window. I do think it might qualify for the best office view in the world; ever-changing with weather and tides - I never tire of it.

Just having a little rest to get over the strain of the commute.



The silver ring with gold etching is by Diana Porter and reads "in heaven on earth" - it's one of my favourite rings.

I have this Boden cardi in three different colourways - it's perfect with dresses too.



This post has been sitting in my draft box since September. Writing it up on a dark, cold November morning it's hard to recall the warmth of the days when silk trousers and tee shirt were the order of the day, and sandals were the default shoe wear, with the only question being wedges or flats. The mornings were often cool enough to warrant a little cashmere cardi, but after lunch as temperatures rose we were still comfortable in something sleeveless.

The star of the show has to be these beautiful silk trousers which were a joyful discovery in a charity shop. They were in immaculate condition, and a perfect length for my frame too. I'm a big fan of palazzo pants as you'll know so what a treat to find these. They have an interesting front overlay which ties at the waist giving them a little twist and extra appeal for me. I do like that something out of the ordinary or unexpected.

I've swapped orange bags today back to my old faithful. Purchased from TK Maxx some time ago I only recently found out it's actually ostrich hide. I like the structure and the shape plus the fact it's got four lovely little brass studs as feet to keep the leather off the ground, makes it pretty much my perfect handbag. I tied my scarf to the handle meaning to put it on for the shoot to showcase the fab windowpane check as well as the two tone effect. Oh well, maybe next time!

Trousers: charity shop. Cardi: Boden (customised with Mary Goldberg buttons). Vest top: charity shop. Handbag: TK Maxx. Scarf: charity shop. Necklace: charity shop. Green pearl bracelet: charity shop. Green round bead bracelet: Magpie & Butterfly. Yellow stone ring: Martin James. Silver and gold etched ring: Diana Porter.


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Crazy librarian



Ooops, I noticed too late that my tights were wrinkled!

This bowling bag was a great charity shop find.

I love cable knit tights, but they do tend to go a bit Nora Batty on me.

The necklace is an Emily Nixon piece. It's smokey quartz and sterling silver; quite weighty, but it's nice to wear real jewellery sometimes.

I love this textured top. It was only £4 in the sale and already cost per wear is down to pennies!


OK, this may just be me, but I think I'm channelling a crazy librarian in this outfit. That's how it feels anyway, and I really love it (and what's not to love, if it means being surrounded by books, books and more books?) What's funny is how I commented in a recent post that I thought midi skirts don't suit me (see here) and suddenly today here I am wearing the same skirt and top and I'm feeling completely in the groove.

I'm spending a fair bit of time checking out other fashion blogs at the moment and really like that they're all so different. I think the adage of opposites attract means that I enjoy seeing the understated and elegant, yet don't believe I can quite carry that look off. Would you come back for a second view if I went all plain Jane? I think to work something simple you really have to be blessed with everything else being wow - you know, dazzling white teeth, fabulous hair, skin, nails, the lot. Sometimes I remember to do my nails, sometimes my hair shines, but I'm nearly 60 so I ain't gonna have youthful, glowing skin again and don't get me started on these teeth! 

I think there are times in our lives when we take stock of ourselves, regroup and redefine ourselves. I've done the working girl, young mum, ambitious juggler and now after a moment of thinking I was going suffer empty-nest syndrome, I'm an over 50's blogger who is stretching across the globe networking with others of my age. This has led me to find all kinds of women doing their own thing including - at the other end of the style spectrum - the likes of Mel of Bag and a Beret. This cool cat has the most wonderful collection of clothes. Mel's all-singing, all-dancing, zany posts are better than any fashion show and twice as funny. Mel is just one of many fashionistas who are inspirational to the likes of me, the novice blogger. It seems that in the world of fashion blogging I'm in middle ground, and that's comfortable, gratifying. Amidst this older set I'm holding my own; nestled in between the lurex and the leather I can speak my own voice through the medium of clothes. This is where you'll find me every Wednesday and Sunday proffering the latest version of myself, and maybe you'll join me.

Cardigan: Fenn Wright Manson. Skirt: River Island. Top: H&M. Shoes: Office. Tights: H&M. Handbag: charity shop. Necklace: Emily Nixon. Bangles: charity shop. Brown ring: East. Cream flower ring: charity shop.


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Welcome to my island home

View across Old Grimsby bay to Blockhouse Castle.

Blockhouse cottages are nestled below. I lived here with my husband when we were first married 34 years ago, and I have fond memories of those days.

This new development, the Sea Garden cottages, has replaced the Island Hotel at Old Grimsby.

Looking towards St Martin's from the vantage point of the Blockhouse Castle.

Same vantage point, but looking towards the Eastern Isles.

The cows were a favourite subject for my artist friend, Kathy Todd, when she lived here.

This little chap was keen to have a look at me looking at him.

I live here at the foot of the hill with this idyllic view across New Grimsby bay to Bryher.

Here comes the inter island freight launch delivering all the goods.

And this is the view from outside my house.


It's 6 months since I started my blog and I thought it might be nice to show you all some of the sights around my home. I travelled to the Scilly Isles in 1978 as a backpacker looking for a summer job, and never left. I love living on an island, and can't imagine not being within striking distance of the sea. We Brits seem to be obsessed with the weather, but that's nothing compared to what it's like if you live on an island. If it's foggy the planes might not fly or if it's blowing a gale then the ship might not sail. Conversely when the sun shines, we rave about how lucky we are, and seeing the sunset above, you can surely understand why. We have a boat instead of a car, and the rush hour comprises of a mix of tractors, bikes and golf buggies, with a jet boat bringing the children across from Bryher for the school run. 

The Isles of Scilly are a popular tourist resort drawing people from not only the West Country, but all over the UK and also from Europe and beyond. Our mild climate benefits from the warm waters of the Gulf stream, but as a hardened sea swimmer, I never seem to find that particular drift myself when I'm splashing about out there! The islands have very little pollution meaning that the quality of light here is extraordinarily clear, therefore is a real draw for artists and photographers alike. We also have a huge influx of bird watchers come here in the autumn to chase a rare specimen which has been blown off course from another country. 

These islands seem to weave their magic around our visitors with a very high percentage returning year after year. Accommodation gets booked up by regulars who re-book mostly before they've even left. Island life is community spirited, and we work for a common aim - to make our little islands thrive. It's a privilege to live and work here and a joy to have such a beautiful, healthy environment to raise a family in. My children are all grown up now, but they benefited from a close-knit upbringing, where their schooling was on the islands amongst life long friends. Island life is a blessing, and those of you who also live this kind of life will echo my sentiments, I'm sure.



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Zebra print tights










I have to say that going into autumn is never an easy time for me. I suffer a touch of S.A.D. and the winter months loom large. We, in the Northern hemisphere,watch the sun heading South and for many it's a journey we wish we could take too. In February of this year Steve and I travelled to New Zealand to visit friends and it was such a wonderful bonus to find ourselves slap, bang in the middle of summer. To feel the sun on your back relaxes all of those muscles that have been hunched up against the cold all winter, and the warmth of the rays on the face has the same soothing effect. Small wonder we all look so damned good in our holiday snaps!

I've found a new backdrop today as the sea is starting to look a bit grey rather than the twinkly temptation it was during the summer months. Also, this pampas grass is great to offset my zebra print tights. I bought these in a bundle from eBay a couple of years ago, but today is the first time I've worn them. I love this textured pencil skirt, but thought it might look a bit boring, so enter stage left these amazing tights, swiftly followed by my rose gold brogues (I still get a little thrill just mentioning rose gold and brogues all in the same sentence). I think this fluffy jumper is a great zingy colour and I must admit I'm a sucker for fluffy numbers as you'll no doubt see over the forthcoming months. The jacket was a recent charity shop find, and just needed some new buttons to bring it back into life. Suede jackets like this used to be called "car coats", but I have no idea why. Do you? Please let me know if you do.

Jacket: charity shop. Skirt: charity shop. Sweater: Tesco. Blouse: charity shop. Tights: eBay. Shoes: TK Maxx. Cream flower ring: charity shop; Tan flower ring: Dorothy Perkins. Handbag: charity shop.

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The poncho










As we reach progress further in autumn, I'm having to concede that an extra layer is a necessity rather than an option, sadly. I suppose it does give me the chance to bring out all of my winter woollies including this fluffy poncho which can't really make it's mind up. Is it just a big jumper or a fully fledged poncho? Whichever, it's very snuggly and was a cosy buffer against the onshore wind during our early morning photo shoot.  I've paired it up with these rather lovely tweed trousers which have a sleek satin lining, again a little protection from the chilly weather. They were my bargain of day when I was last shopping at TK Maxx. The label price was £415 with a reduction down to £59.99 - oh, how I love a bargain! With a mid rise and slouchy pockets, they pretty much ticked all the boxes and when I tried them on the leg length was ideal for me too. The deal was done!

I've worn them today with my two tone heeled brogues which have been waiting in the wings for their blog debut. The extra height is just what I needed to stop the trousers looking a bit heavy, even chunky on my less than lithesome thighs. Another debut piece is the extra long necklace which is in perfect proportion with the oversized jumper/poncho. Thanks go to my sister Dianne for this, and its matching bracelet, yet to be shown. And the finishing flourish had to be the vintage leather handbag, a recent charity shop find which is a real classic. Autumn is upon us and I'm good to go.

Poncho: TK Maxx. Trousers: No 21 (TK Maxx). Tee shirt: M&S. Shoes: New Look. Pendant: gift. Handbag: charity shop. Brown stone ring: East. Diamante ring: charity shop.

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Paisley print skirt and blue biker












Apologies to those of you who are tiring of this biker jacket and its claim to fame. But if I were a jacket, I would be this jacket. Never have I been quite so besotted. My favourite of the moment is usually my latest purchase, but this has endured being superseded and is still holding strong.  I love testing it out to see what else in my wardrobe I can pair it with. And this surely must be a good thing; to recycle what's here rather than become bored and feel the need to shop again. I know that this sentiment will strike a chord with other kindred shoppers out there. To have a lure in the wardrobe rather than in the shop window can only be good.

I've had this paisley print pencil skirt for a couple of years and it was in danger of becoming one of my invisible items in the cupboard. You know what I mean, when you have loads of clothes, but so many of them don't capture your attention as you're blind to their existence. Sometimes you skim over them for a reason - it no longer fits or is a bit faded, bobbled or the colour isn't easy to marry up. Well this skirt had become a bit loose around the waist meaning that I always dismissed it, but today I decided to add a wide belt to overcome the problem - et voila!


The pussy bow blouse is making another appearance after resting since June when it was featured here. And seemingly this is our latest must-have for this winter season - so wasn't it grand that I had the foresight to buy mine early before the rush! I swear that if you hang on to them long enough every piece of clothing you own will come back into style again. This must be one of the major benefits of getting older and having a slight hoarding tendency. 

Jacket: TK Maxx. Skirt: H&H. Blouse: eBay. Belt: H&M. Shoes: Portugal. Tights: Dorothy Perkins. Rings: charity shop. Sunglasses: Quay Australia.


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